Sinking Below The Noise of The World – Are You Able To?

by Mindy Thomas on December 22, 2011

“It takes practice to hear your true desires. Your passion will often come as a whisper or a serendipitous event that reminds you of what’s important and what makes you happy.”

When I read this quote by Eckhart Tolle about practicing to get below “the noise of the world”, the reoccurring concept of being “still” with ourselves in order to gain insight, is a concept that most folks are unaware of.

As Tolle describes . . .therein lies the secret about how we find out what is really important and what makes us happy in a world that is chaotic and often scary and confusing.  Today, as you know, so many folks are on a quest for the meaning of life and the pursuit of happiness. You can see it everywhere.

I can tell you that I love this journey.  I love it when you meet up with friends and the conversation goes deeper than the political battles or entertainment gossip or what your cooking for the holidays.  I love seeing my yoga class filled to the brim.  I often wonder about their quest and the journey they are on.  Isn’t it interesting how some people begin this search early on?  I think of my 25-year old son who began the quest a year ago. And, my own journey not beginning, until I faced tremendous adversity in my life, some twenty years ago.

Below the noise of the world, we can uncover many things. For some, it’s about getting perspective on life and relationships. For others, it’s about being thankful for the many gifts we’ve been given. It could also be a realization that difficult and challenging times might be just simply be a transitional phase.

What has struck me more recently is that when we attempt (really attempt) to take away the “noise” (whether it’s shutting down to take a walk in nature, turn off the distractions of the radio or TV, lighting a candle while eating breakfast or dinner, taking a run at the gym or settling down to read an inspiring book) . . . that the those whispers of insight about happiness and importance really do come up.

It seems like we just have to make the space for the insight to surface. Without sinking below the noise of this very chaotic world, it seems like it’s an endless battle to get to that place of stillness. I am curious. . . as we move into full stride of the holiday season . . .  whether you are working your way in understanding your true desires for this lifetime.

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Career transitions are tough. So many people want to do it. So many folks want to cross that bridge.  But they are held back by fear and many times . . . by a lack of support by the naysayers of the world.  I have to tell you that I am truly amazed when a client just does it. It doesn’t matter which occupation or career path you choose.  Everyone has a gift and our number one job on the planet is to find out what that is.

So, when my client emailed me this morning to tell me that “he got the job”, I was doing my happy dance.  Together, through career counseling, we both discovered that he was meant for a nursing career not the 15-year career he had held down in IT.  We knew he would have to make financial sacrifices to step back from a nearly six figure salary. We knew he would have to have the courage and trust in himself to take the leap. For once and for all, he knew that he had to resolve in himself whether he should transition into a career that haunted him for years.

What I loved about my client was he was willing to invest in himself to figure it out.  He worked for hours reflecting and thinking about making this transition. He did exercises to determine his highest values and his favorite skills that he loved to use.  He even took up journaling a couple times a week. When you take the time to uncover your gift within, it is amazing to witness the happiness that arises. In that moment, you can see the light in someone’s eyes shine through. You can feel the energy in the room ramp up.  But, most of all, there is an indescribable feeling of happiness, confidence and hope. 

Down with the job he hated for years. Down with the three hour commute from Lancaster to King of Prussia every day. Down with that Monday morning horrible feeling of dread. A new life, happiness on all fronts and a whopping 2.4 mile commute to the hospital from home awaits my client.  Interesting  how life changes on a dime.

For all those folks out there who have been going around and around wondering  if it’s time to move on, maybe you should seek professional help to sort these kinds of issues out.

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